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    • Social Work Perspective
      • <figure class=" sqs-block-image-figure intrinsic " > As a Social Worker, I see people in difficult situations, every day.  There are gaps in our systems and a multitude of complex factors can negatively impact people.   SVdP states simply that the Society ‘Helps People’ and as a Social Worker and part of the team at the Welfare Hub, that is what we do.  I advocate, navigate systems, catch tears, challenge, listen, and listen some more to build the relationship and trust to support and shape assistance around each person’s needs and aims.  Social Work is often behind the scenes, working with those who feel unseen or who society chooses not to see.  This is where the joy and the challenge is.  The work is incredibly diverse.  People often have trauma (PTSD) from previous experiences which is exacerbated by daily stressors.  I am working with those who have their children removed from their care or adjusting when returned to their care, those from refugee or migrant backgrounds developing a new life, those living rough, with mental health challenges, those struggling with addiction or recovery, and many with traumatic backgrounds that impact daily life.  It is rewarding when there is change, although it can be a long, and challenging road.  The challenges people live with are significant and each person’s story matters.  Backgrounds and situations are diverse, and the need is broadening as we see the elderly and those in employment coming for help.  For those with English as a second language, it can be extra hard.  Our systems (e.g. health, housing) are process designed, with ‘hard edges’ requiring humans to fit into boxes, and often don’t allow for the multi-faceted complexity people face.  This exacerbates mental and emotional stress when people are already at their limit.   It can be incredibly disempowering.  This is where I can help with smoothing some of those hard edges by walking alongside, assisting, advocating, and navigating systems together.  Part of my role is also in relationships with those in other agencies, government, health, or NGOs as this best supports people when I can advocate directly with a professional within that environment.  It can feel at times like I am that duck on the pond who looks like I am swimming about calmly but is also behind the scenes furiously paddling under the water, juggling contact with various agencies while also maintaining face-to-face meetings with people.  In the past year, the impact of the housing crisis is very real and impacting all sorts of people.  I am currently working with both an elderly couple and students who experienced rent increases that they cannot sustain.  Neither group has sought help previously but is now unable to afford food or basic bills.  The social housing waitlist has grown exponentially with no end in sight.  People are living with family in overcrowded homes, in Emergency or transitional Housing (hotels, motels, lodges) for longer time periods as there is nowhere for people to go.  Work and Income paying for Emergency Housing (hotels) was expanded as part of the COVID-19 response but has continued as the housing ‘boom’ impacts housing supply and costs.  There are also those in the ‘gaps’ waiting for Residency or Visa applications to be processed through Immigration NZ.  While waiting, they often have legal bills, ongoing costs for medical certificates, and temporary Visas, which are not eligible to work or receive benefits.  For couples, that can mean living on one minimal benefit between two, and there is just not enough money.  Not knowing what is next destroys any sense of security or future focus for people.  This reveals systemic challenges which are not solved quickly, and if I can help with relieving some pressure by offering emotional and psychological support while seeking alternate housing, assisting with applications, advocating for increased entitlements and provision of food and material goods, this goes some way to people feeling supported.  In even the most challenging circumstances, I am always looking for people’s strengths, their resilience and celebrating and encouraging any small successes.  The smallest thing can be encouraged, such as someone ‘blocking’ messages from an unsafe ex-partner or achieving by collaborating with other agencies to assist someone in a risky situation to have income or providing furniture when someone moves into a house.  When someone gets a part-time job, or texts to say they are safe, or joins a group to broaden social connections, I see all these things as successes.  Change only comes with dedicated, committed hard work from the person and those supporting the person and it can take time, determination, and patience.    Thank you to everyone who donates to Vinnies.  Every donation to our food bank and every Op Shop purchase counts, as it all goes directly towards the work of helping people.  We cannot do the work without this generous support, so thank you. Tania Martin | Registered Social Worker socialwork@vinnieswgtn.org.nz

    • Expansion of Holy Trinity Eastern Suburbs
      • After 12 months of consultation and recruitment, our Conference activity now covers all the Eastern suburbs in Wellington, recently adding the Kilbirnie/Rongotai/Lyall Bay/Hataitai area to the Seatoun/Strathmore/Miramar catchment.  This step continues the St Vincent de Paul Society’s strengthening of its mission across the Wellington area, supported by our parish, Cardinal John Dew and his archdiocesan officers.   The expanded coverage doubles the client population previously assisted by the Seatoun & Miramar Conference, which is now known as Holy Trinity Eastern Suburbs Conference.  With the strong support of the parish pastoral council and parish priest of Holy Trinity Parish, eleven new active members have been recruited plus an extra eight associate members to strengthen the capacity of the Conference to deliver the St Vincent de Paul Society mission to poor, sick, lonely and marginalised people in the wider area. <figure class=" sqs-block-image-figure intrinsic " > During the second half of 2019, the Conference completed a simple social assessment to identify deprivation and needs in the area, consulted parish and community leaders for their support, and carried out recruitment through personal contact and presentations to parishioners at all Masses.  In 2020, prospective new members participated in information sessions, attended monthly meetings of the Conference, successfully completed application and Police vetting procedures, and are now starting to get involved in visiting and assisting clients in need. The overwhelming consensus was for an enlarged Conference with stable structure and resources, rather than trying to sustain two smaller Conferences in the same parish and suburban area. Once COVID alert levels allow, a commissioning liturgy with the parish priest is planned at a Mass in St Patrick’s Church, Kilbirnie, to prayerfully welcome the new members into active membership of the St Vincent de Paul Society in the service of those in need in our communities. We have been blessed.  Brendan Quirk | Holy Trinity Eastern Suburbs Conference President

    • Volunteering: Community & Connection
      • Each week, 18-year-old Grace Smyth treks up the steep hill that leads her to the Vinnies Kelburn Op Shop. <figure class=" sqs-block-image-figure intrinsic " > Kelburn Volunteer: Grace The Assistant Manager began volunteering when she was in year twelve, with the hopes of getting a bit more job experience and giving back to the community in the spare time she had. Grace’s duties involve sorting, pricing and selling, and when her manager isn’t there—she’s in charge of the whole store. Smyth’s main highlight is the wonderful feeling of helping her community, while seeing how happy Vinnie’s services make their customers. Grace also stressed the rewarding nature of working with her cheerful manager, Narges Hamidi who has been there since she joined over two and a half years ago. “She makes the whole experience really fun, [with her] getting stuff done doesn’t feel like a task.” Volunteering holds a special place in Grace’s heart. She is grateful for the incredible people she gets to work with and meet regularly. “I can give back to the community and connect with others as well. I know so many people from Kelburn that I’ve met through the shop and I’ve made some great friends – they’re all just so lovely.” Smyth is also a youth group volunteer and often heads back to Karori Baptist Church after her shifts at Vinnie’s. She spoke of both roles with such joy and dedication, and iterated that if there’s anyone out there considering volunteering: “Just do it!” She encourages others to “go for it because if you don’t like it, you can stop—there are no repercussions.” From her role at Vinnies she has learnt great customer service, working well in a team, communication skills and has had the opportunity to build a community. The Kelburn Op Shop has about 15 volunteers, each with a diverse range of backgrounds and age groups. Grace reflected on the enjoyable pizza party the group had, while celebrating the birthday of Vinnie’s earlier this year. She is proud of the wonderful team she works with and feels they deserve to be celebrated for their efforts; “lots of hours going into the job shouldn’t go unnoticed.” In light of current events, Grace has found her role extremely valuable. Her own reflections exhibited the selfless, warm nature of volunteering to make a difference in the community; “To feel like you can do something for someone else and not be consumed with yourself especially [in a time such as] COVID-19 is important. It’s good to think about other people and what they’re going through in order to just help them a bit more instead.” Grace is well into her first year of Computer Science at Victoria University, but doesn’t have plans to stop volunteering any time soon. “I just love the community and the family that we’ve got at Vinnie’s Kelburn!” Her final message was one of appreciation for her wonderful community; “Thanks for supporting us, being there for us and giving back because we really wouldn’t be able to do it without you.”

    • Collaboration, Coordination and Inspiration
      • <figure class=" sqs-block-image-figure intrinsic " > The past six months have provided opportunities for the Holy Trinity Eastern Suburbs Conference in Wellington, to provide new and existing clients with the assistance they need, when they need it.  It’s also provided real insight into, firstly, the value of collaboration and coordination between Parish, Conference members and Vinnie’s service staff in Newtown; and secondly, how a targeted and specific approach helps inspire members and clients alike. With the on-set of Level 4 lockdown in March 2020, our Conference used our existing client lists, Parish Office referrals of elderly and isolated parishioners, the Vinnies social worker referrals and Conference member knowledge to identify 180 clients to check-in on under lockdown conditions.            We then used 14 members (active members, associates and prospective members) to undertake check-in phone calls and find out whether there was any specific lockdown needs such as food supply, clothing or child/baby needs, bedding, encouragement through the stress of it all, advocacy, or on-going check-up calls. Overall, there was overwhelmingly positive feedback on the outreach from Vinnies which was also seen as representative of being part of a caring Parish.  Many practical needs were identified, such as nine households requiring weekly food parcels which, once referred by us, were delivered by the Vinnies vans from nearby Newtown. These services continued into Alert Levels 3 and 2, sometimes requiring our own Conference members to do deliveries.  As parishioners heard of the initiative through the grapevine and our notices in the online weekly parish newsletters, more food/household items and money were donated directly to help these clients.  Families with children who needed school items and clothing were also identified and, as we progressed to Alert Level 1, it was possible for one of our members to take these families shopping to secure necessary supplies. We have all long known that often the most effective services are those that require coordination to fulfil a range of needs.  These needs also require more than one person or group involved in order to achieve the best outcomes.  Conversely, it is often a lack of coordination that provides the most frustration for those in most need who have multiple needs.  COVID-19 gave us an opportunity to showcase the value of Parish Office staff, priests, parishioners, our Conference members and Vinnies Welfare Centre staff working together – it was inspiring for all involved.

    • A United Response
      • Like most businesses in Wellington, St. Vincent de Paul Society closed their doors to the public on March 23rd. However, with the soaring numbers of unemployment and the sudden isolation people were experiencing, Vinnies’ work was just beginning. With a staff of seven, the Vinnies Wellington branch transformed into an essential parcel distribution hub delivering food, baby supplies, and winter necessities. Vinnies decision to continue operating during the lockdown was due to its dedication to providing welfare services. The decision to adapt to a delivery service was agreed on by key staff and influenced by the government guidelines. Based on their existing support services and because staff had safe, internal access to the Newtown Op-shop, it was clear they could offer three different types of parcels: the food bank changed into a delivery service; the pregnancy assistance service was used for baby parcels; . and clothing, heaters, and bedding were packed up and delivered as winter parcels.  Millie Lambess, the Communications and Marketing Development Manager wrote in an email, “People’s struggles didn’t stop because we all went into lockdown – for many they increased – we had a responsibility as a welfare provider to continue being a responsive and stable support system for the community”. This type of care and commitment to the Wellington community drives the staff at Vinnies. To quickly keep up with the community’s growing needs, incoming calls were sent to all the phones in the office, and whoever was momentarily free would take parcel orders. Everyone became the face and voice of the operation. The Wellington headquarters sits on top of their op-shop in Newtown. On Mondays, Tuesdays, and Wednesdays one difficult task included hauling newly delivered produce up a flight of stairs to be washed, packaged, and then carried back down to the delivery van. With one van at their disposal, they delivered approximately 200 parcels a week to different suburbs throughout Wellington. For six weeks, everyone’s role in the office adjusted to fit three key jobs: take orders, assemble the packages, and get them to people. Although the tasks were simple, within the first two to three weeks of lockdown they experienced a 380% increase in demand for their services. The Wellington branch made a point to be accessible to anyone and everyone. Occasionally, people from other parts of New Zealand would call asking for help, and the staff would assist in any way they could to link them to an organisation in their area. St. Vincent’s role in the community offered comfort and stability to people who were feeling isolated and struggling. In total, Vinnies in Wellington supported 1,169 individuals, 703 adults, and 466 children. The team worked hard to offer tangible help and resources, as well as emotional support. As the lockdown continued, the staff found that clients who called to place an order also liked to check-in and chat with someone. Sometimes, being the voice at the end of the phone was enough. Freedom from fear is a fundamental human right and essential in driving our actions. As we’re propelled into times of uncertainty, fear is a looming presence shaping our world’s ideals. Society of St. Vincent de Paul continues to provide compassionate support in the face of adversity. The organisation’s motto is “people helping people” because it strives to promote social justice through practical and caring ways. Society of St. Vincent de Paul reminds us that freedom from fear begins by helping each other. The individuals who delivered parcels and supported our community during a global pandemic provided us momentary relief from the fear of COVID-19. By Gerorgia Cutter | Guest Writer <a role="presentation" class=" image-slide-anchor content-fill " > <a role="presentation" class=" image-slide-anchor content-fill " > <a role="presentation" class=" image-slide-anchor content-fill " > <a role="presentation" class=" image-slide-anchor content-fill " > <a role="presentation" class=" image-slide-anchor content-fill " > <a role="presentation" class=" image-slide-anchor content-fill " > <a role="presentation" class=" image-slide-anchor content-fill " > <a role="presentation" class=" image-slide-anchor content-fill " >

    • Breaking Down Social Barriers One Stitch at a Time
      • Vinnies Re Sew is an initiative focused in Wellington, ‘materialising’ in the Vinnies’ Kilbirnie workshop over three years ago. The organisation has a sustainable focus whereby clothing and textiles not sold in Vinnies Op Shops sShops are developed into creations to meet the needs of our community. There is also the collaboration from a diverse group of volunteers, coherently “Breaking down social barriers and creating meaningful connections one stitch at a time.” <a data-title="" data-description="" data-lightbox-theme="light" href="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a555a504c0dbfb36fda563c/1599796365630-ACI4Q719P4SBFZBXK1AE/ke17ZwdGBToddI8pDm48kDHPSfPanjkWqhH6pl6g5ph7gQa3H78H3Y0txjaiv_0fDoOvxcdMmMKkDsyUqMSsMWxHk725yiiHCCLfrh8O1z4YTzHvnKhyp6Da-NYroOW3ZGjoBKy3azqku80C789l0mwONMR1ELp49Lyc52iWr5dNb1QJw9casjKdtTg1_-y4jz4ptJBmI9gQmbjSQnNGng/IMG_20200220_114834.jpg" role="button" class=" image-slide-anchor js-gallery-lightbox-opener content-fill " > View fullsize <a data-title="" data-description="" data-lightbox-theme="light" href="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a555a504c0dbfb36fda563c/1599796382960-OH4AZEGU48NTLSUIF6YV/ke17ZwdGBToddI8pDm48kNiEM88mrzHRsd1mQ3bxVct7gQa3H78H3Y0txjaiv_0fDoOvxcdMmMKkDsyUqMSsMWxHk725yiiHCCLfrh8O1z4YTzHvnKhyp6Da-NYroOW3ZGjoBKy3azqku80C789l0s0XaMNjCqAzRibjnE_wBlkZ2axuMlPfqFLWy-3Tjp4nKScCHg1XF4aLsQJlo6oYbA/IMG_20200811_143513_906.jpg" role="button" class=" image-slide-anchor js-gallery-lightbox-opener content-fill " > View fullsize <a data-title="" data-description="" data-lightbox-theme="light" href="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a555a504c0dbfb36fda563c/1599796398637-957OOOQSFQDNU4ZNQ5NY/ke17ZwdGBToddI8pDm48kDHPSfPanjkWqhH6pl6g5ph7gQa3H78H3Y0txjaiv_0fDoOvxcdMmMKkDsyUqMSsMWxHk725yiiHCCLfrh8O1z4YTzHvnKhyp6Da-NYroOW3ZGjoBKy3azqku80C789l0mwONMR1ELp49Lyc52iWr5dNb1QJw9casjKdtTg1_-y4jz4ptJBmI9gQmbjSQnNGng/Participants+from+ChangeMakers.jpeg" role="button" class=" image-slide-anchor js-gallery-lightbox-opener content-fill " > View fullsize <a data-title="" data-description="" data-lightbox-theme="light" href="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a555a504c0dbfb36fda563c/1599796422828-V3J9105EUMIIBHJTP0BX/ke17ZwdGBToddI8pDm48kDHPSfPanjkWqhH6pl6g5ph7gQa3H78H3Y0txjaiv_0fDoOvxcdMmMKkDsyUqMSsMWxHk725yiiHCCLfrh8O1z4YTzHvnKhyp6Da-NYroOW3ZGjoBKy3azqku80C789l0mwONMR1ELp49Lyc52iWr5dNb1QJw9casjKdtTg1_-y4jz4ptJBmI9gQmbjSQnNGng/IMG_20200220_114814.jpg" role="button" class=" image-slide-anchor js-gallery-lightbox-opener content-fill " > View fullsize <a data-title="" data-description="" data-lightbox-theme="light" href="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a555a504c0dbfb36fda563c/1599796423782-7PSVU7UW2C8MZYFZ1XS3/ke17ZwdGBToddI8pDm48kMnHRrpWSlSCB9XabjgyantZw-zPPgdn4jUwVcJE1ZvWQUxwkmyExglNqGp0IvTJZUJFbgE-7XRK3dMEBRBhUpz4FkPJA585QYBg9EjPvRpkIxxB_SdP_xzqtxyFDizV5aadH9FfX0OATazAJGndjd8/IMG_0080.jpeg" role="button" class=" image-slide-anchor js-gallery-lightbox-opener content-fill " > View fullsize <a data-title="" data-description="" data-lightbox-theme="light" href="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a555a504c0dbfb36fda563c/1599796536568-AWG5YQUHRMQS6VDYT4EB/ke17ZwdGBToddI8pDm48kDHPSfPanjkWqhH6pl6g5ph7gQa3H78H3Y0txjaiv_0fDoOvxcdMmMKkDsyUqMSsMWxHk725yiiHCCLfrh8O1z4YTzHvnKhyp6Da-NYroOW3ZGjoBKy3azqku80C789l0mwONMR1ELp49Lyc52iWr5dNb1QJw9casjKdtTg1_-y4jz4ptJBmI9gQmbjSQnNGng/IMG_20191101_111421.jpg" role="button" class=" image-slide-anchor js-gallery-lightbox-opener content-fill " > View fullsize Caroline O’Reilly has been the Recycle Coordinator and Sewing Tutor since the initiative began. She reiterates, “we like working collaboratively with groups across Wellington to support every community; we all need support.” Ultimately, this initiative enables those in the community to create for the community. Volunteers teach and share their expertise with participants, supporting those wishing to learn new skills and even encouraging many to re-enter the work force. After receiving clothing and other materials not sold in Vinnies Op Shops, the team—consisting of one full-time staff and a number of volunteers and participants—sort through the materials, selecting a small percent to be repurposed. As Caroline has discovered over the last three years, it is “time consuming, labour intensive, skilled work to turn fabric into something that is usable again.” The initiative then works to create products that can benefit their own services and support organisations that have reached out to Re Sew for assistance. Re Sew also serves to connect manufacturers to sewers, and often donates fabrics to other organisations such as schools and theatre groups. In January 2019, Re Sew launched their production of gowns for the Mary Potter Hospice. The Hospice initially reached out, as there was a lack of gowns on the market for larger people undergoing chemotherapy. The garments—produced from recycled duvet covers and sheets— did not follow the design of traditional gowns with a back opening, but aimed to preserve the dignity of the patients, by using shoulder and arm slits for medical intervention. A number of crafted gowns were delivered to the Hospice in June this year. Another outstanding project was Suffrage in Stitches, which involved 546 makers in Aotearoa contributing to a 300m textile work which was suspended on the wall of the Wellington Museum for seven months and viewed by over 50,000 visitors. The project enabled a community of volunteers to unite and learn about the history of New Zealand’s Suffragist’s Movement, not only deepening their own connection to our country’s history but also creating meaningful relationships along the way. With the current COVID-19 pandemic, Re Sew has been working closely with other Vinnies’ initiatives such as the Food Bank. Face masks have been fashioned from donated fabrics to be sent out alongside food parcels, with the goal of keeping the community safe. Recently, the initiative has also been involved in a range of other projects: from supporting the Vinnie’s Pregnancy Assist with cot quilts, blankets and bassinet sheets; creating napkins for the Newtown Community Centre; to producing recyclable rice bags to reduce the use of plastic. The events of this year have produced a great deal of anxiety in our community, especially in relation to the fluctuating job market. These uncertainties have seen Re Sew aim to develop a community support network, with the initiative focusing more on “wellbeing, mindfulness and helping [others] to cope with the world we’re in at the moment.” The generous nature of the Re Sew community has been widely exhibited to date, from raising awareness of community inequities and advocating for different groups, to connecting communities and projects. There is immense value in “making something so someone can live a better life [while] using Re Sew’s free resources and space.” The coordinator also spoke of the humbling effects of working with a diverse group of people. “We work with a broad group; people from diverse marginalised communities, social groups, nationalities and faiths […] We are all one when we work here.” Over time, she has also seen the dispelling of stereotypes and development of empathy for the community; two concepts required now, more than ever. Caroline O’Reilly’s experience with Re Sew has been one of reward, yet it has also opened her eyes to the realities of our world. “We all have a responsibility to buy better quality, buy less […] Be a conscious consumer.” Next up for Re Sew are pop ups, auctions and more community events, all with the goal of uniting and supporting Wellingtonians, while sharing this remarkable vision of a sustainable future in the process.   There is such liberation in supporting your community, while learning a new skill and fostering relationships with others. If you would like to join the project, have ideas for upcoming ventures, like to teach, or just generally get involved—the Re Sew community encourages you to get in touch.

    • President's Address: The Way Forward
      • We are all interconnected - with each other - and with creation itself. This is the message of Pope Francis in his encyclical Laudato Si’ “On Care for Our Common Home”, and expressed in the Strategic Plan adopted by the Annual General Meeting of the Society in March of this year. As Vincentians we are committed to living sustainably and responding to the challenges outlined in the encyclical. The restrictions imposed upon us due to the Covid-19 crisis present an opportunity for each of us to evaluate our contribution to living sustainably, and how we care for each other and our environment. Pope Francis puts it very powerfully, “the earth itself, burdened and laid waste, is among the most abandoned and maltreated of our poor”. In Wellington, as elsewhere in New Zealand, the Vincentian spirit of “people helping people” was very evident during lockdown at Level 4 and subsequently. Our staff sourced and delivered food essentials to many in need. Conference members made telephone contact with many who were isolated. We liaised with and co-operated with other faith-based charities, sharing our offerings so we could best serve those in need. Thank you to our staff who worked tirelessly to meet the demand for assistance during lockdown. Thank you to our conference members who took the time to phone those who were alone or isolated during lockdown. Thank you to our volunteers who rallied to the cause when permitted to do so and helped re-establish the operation of our shops. The so called “new normal” with restricted interactions especially on a larger scale mean that we need to be more resourceful, thoughtful and aware of the presence of others as we go about our daily lives. We are urged to be kind - be kind to ourselves and to others and to our environment. This is the Vincentian spirit, this is the new normal for Vincentians, this is our way forward. John Kennedy-Good | Wellington Area President (2014 - August 2020) <figure class=" sqs-block-image-figure intrinsic " > Left: Past Area President, John Kennedy-Good Right: Current Area President, Eustie Kamath

    • New President for Wellington Council
      • I am pleased to announce that Eustie Kamath, President and Treasurer of the Onslow Conference, has been unanimously elected as President of the St Vincent de Paul Society Wellington Area Council, following my retirement (John Kennedy-Good). Eustie brings to the position a wealth of experience on social justice issues and has participated in the life of several parishes including as an active member of the Onslow SVdP Conference and as a Council Member. Eustie Kamath: “After living and working in three continents I arrived in Auckland, New Zealand in November 1995 with my wife and three children. Living throughout the North Island, we settled in Wellington in 2012, with no intention of moving again. I have been active in the church. Before I delve into the details – I was born to a devout Catholic family. I took my faith for granted till it was severely tested when I went to study engineering in Kanpur at the Indian Institute of Technology. This institute has some of the brightest minds in the country and they chose to paint a target on my back as I was part of two visible minority groups - South Indian and Christian. I had two choices to lose the target – roll over and play dead or stand up and defend my values. I chose the latter. To do so, I had to learn a lot more about my faith. My Jesuit schooling went a long way in giving me the strength to stand up and be counted.” Experience: Founding Member of Social Justice Group – Eastern Suburbs Auckland and Northern Suburbs Wellington Member Social Justice Group – Palmerston North Eucharistic Minister – Auckland, Palmerston North and Wellington Parish Council Member – Star of the Sea Parish Howick Auckland, St Benedict’s Parish Onslow Wellington Chair Parish Council – Ohariu Parish of St Francis of Assisi, Wellington Member – Passionist Family Groups Auckland, Palmerston North, Wellington Joint Leader – Passionist Family Group, St Benedict’s parish community, Onslow Facilitator – Lazarus Experience, a healing experience for the divorced and separated Member – St Vincent de Paul Society Onslow Conference President and Treasurer – St Vincent de Paul Society Onslow Conference Advocacy – defended submissions to NZ Parliament before three sub-committees Trained as a Side-by-Side mentor, Seasons for Growth (for prisoners) facilitator We welcome Eustie to his new role and wish him every success in furthering the Vision and Mission of the St Vincent de Paul Society in Wellington. John Kennedy-Good, Past Area President St Vincent de Paul Society in Wellington

    • End of an Era
      • After 15 years of service, St Vincent de Paul Society Wellington said farewell to Manager/ Secretary, John Rossbotham.  "I want to pay tribute to our staff and volunteers for the wonderful work they have done over the years to develop our services and work with individuals and families that have, and are, struggling in so many different ways.  Our Vinnies Op Shops staff and volunteers who have, in the same I have served under three Wellington Area Council Presidents and I want to express my special gratitude to each of them and to many other Vincentians that have shaped my thinking over the years. They were always supportive, with a keen eye for opportunity, tempered by a keen sense of enquiry that ensured that together, we did not make too many mistakes."  When John Rossbotham started in 2005, St Vincent de Paul Wellington operated one op shop, a warehouse and food bank. This included five paid staff alongside a part-time Social Worker seconded to the Society from Catholic Social Service. Today the Society benefits from the revenue income of nine shops, operate a number of welfare and support services that provide various levels of assistance to people throughout Wellington while providing employment and volunteer opportunities to more than 140 people. "I look forward to this next stage of life with anticipation, and I assure everyone, that I will miss the many interactions and will remember my time as Manager/Secretary of the Wellington St Vincent de Paul Society with very deep affection."

    • New Leadership for St Vincent de Paul Society Wellington
      • <figure class=" sqs-block-image-figure intrinsic " > John Kennedy-Good, President of St Vincent de Paul Society in Wellington, is pleased to announce that Sally Babington has accepted the role of General Manager.    Sally comes to us with a strong background in social services, having worked in both community and Government departments. She has a deep commitment to working with people in times of need in a way that enables hope and dignity.  John Kennedy-Good says, "Sally has a history in statutory social work, as well as funding and contracting with social service providers. She has worked in Special Education leading a team that provides support and services for children with disabilities. In the Justice sector, Sally worked in the prison system and has led a team responsible for designing services to better meet the needs of those using Justice services. Her role at ACC involved leading a large operational team in the ’Serious Injury Service’ in a time when a focus on understanding and meeting client need was required."  "In her community-based roles, Sally has led a team through change in Legal Aid Services, making sure that fairer systems were in place for people not easily able to access a lawyer. She has worked at Barnardos NZ, leading regional teams providing both social work support and early childhood services. Sally also worked at a community-based sex offender treatment programme."  Originally from Christchurch, Sally has lived in Wellington for the past fifteen years. She has a strong focus on seeking to understand what people who use social services really want and need. Sally likes to engage with others to understand and solve problems. She is a strong believer in the collective wisdom of teams. Sally and her husband Allan have three adult children and two (soon-to-be three) grandchildren. In her free time, Sally enjoys running in the hills around Eastbourne and getting into the bush for a tramp. Sally will officially begin the role of General Manager of St Vincent de Paul Society Wellington Area from Monday 13th July 2020, after 15 years of service by Manager/ Secretary, John Rossbotham. Please welcome Sally to the St Vincent de Paul Society Wellington team.

    • SVDP NZ Launches National Recovery Appeal
      • The St Vincent de Paul (SVDP) Society has launched a National Recovery Appeal to help the increasing numbers of individuals and families struggling from the impact of Covid-19. The Appeal is being launched this week and will run until December. The goal is to raise $4 million to provide people with economic, social and emotional support during these times of severe hardship, says SVDP National President Marlena Hoeft-Marwick. “Many of our services have been funded through our Op Shops which had to close during April and May, resulting in a loss of income of about $1.5 million. At the same time the demands for our services have increased by around 400% and are continuing to increase. <a class="image-slide-anchor content-fill" > <a class="image-slide-anchor content-fill" > <a class="image-slide-anchor content-fill" > <a class="image-slide-anchor content-fill" > “The National Recovery Appeal is essential to ensure that we can meet the increasing demand for assistance.  “As a result of economic hardship caused by Covid-19, It is very likely that in the winter months the demand for our services will be greater than ever and will extend to families and individuals who have not depended on our assistance before. We are already seeing an increase in the pool of need.” This week SVDP is sending out hundreds of letters to mayors, local body leaders and business CEOs inviting them personally to support the SVDP campaign in their workplaces and local communities. Each month SVDP will approach a new group of civic and business leaders requesting their support. The Society will promote the Appeal broadly in the community. An SVDP National Recovery Appeal website has been developed and supporters are encouraged to donate online at: donate.svdp.org.nz. People can also donate by cheque and bankcard.  Donations will be used to provide people with the essentials such as food parcels, clothing, household goods and services, as well as social and emotional support.  “Funds will be distributed to Vinnies Centres throughout New Zealand so support can be provided locally,” says Marlena. “Our job is to ease the pressure on individuals and families with practical help. That’s what we have been doing for 150 years and we are determined to be there for New Zealand communities during this time of critical need.”  St Vincent de Paul’s National Retail Manager, John Rossbotham said there had already been an upsurge in generosity from the community. donate “During the lockdown period donations to SVDP have increased five-fold on what we would usually receive. I’ve been involved with SVDP for 33 years and I’ve not seen the scale of need which is evident in the Covid-19 environment. I’m confident that Kiwis will respond generously to the National Recovery Appeal.”  The National Recovery Appeal has the endorsement of Cardinal John Dew, Archbishop of Wellington. “Covid-19 is creating new layers of poverty and need in our community, and it is vital the St Vincent de Paul Society is able to do the work it has done for decades, and to add to it as new needs emerge “I commend the St Vincent de Paul Society for taking proactive steps to ensure that it can continue to help those in need as we all grapple with the needs of our new environment.”   St Vincent de Paul is a registered charity and all donations over $5 are tax-deductible. donate.svdp.org.nz ~ national@svdp.org.nz

    • Small Team, Big Impact
      • <a class="image-slide-anchor content-fill" > <a class="image-slide-anchor content-fill" > St Vincent de Paul Society Wellington (Vinnies) has adapted its welfare and support services to provide essential service packs to individuals and families struggling throughout the COVID-19 Level 4 lock-down. “We’re ensuring our community has access to essential items which we hope will help give them some peace of mind over this uncertain time, as well as help free-up any extra cash to go towards additional food and bills” says Manager, John Rossbotham. These packs cover three key needs: food support, baby material support and winter goods such as warm clothing, bedding, heating and cookware. A small team of six key staff, including two delivery drivers are continuing to work from the Newtown Welfare and Service Hub to answer incoming calls and distribute packs. “Often people are simply relieved you have answered their call as they struggle to get through to overwhelmed government support lines” says Communications and Marketing Manager, Millie Lambess. “For many single parents and people living on their own, there is comfort in knowing they aren’t alone and have the support of a service like Vinnies throughout the lock-down.” Alongside this practical support, the Vinnies Community Social Worker is continuing to work closely with on-going cases and Vinnies Members are calling isolated elderly to check-in with them each week. “I am concerned at the impact of social isolation and stress on those already experiencing life challenges, including sole parents, those living alone or struggling with mental health. Once people are assured they have support for basic needs, they are verbalising anxiety around their safety, or their family’s safety. Emotional and psychological support is going to be very important the longer this lock down continues, and ability to provide personal human connection will be a priority” says Community Social Worker, Tania Martin. Since the lock-down began, the Newtown centre has seen a 380% increase in people accessing its services, with the majority in need of food. Bulk orders of food and essential items are being purchased on a weekly basis by the Society with fresh produce continuing to come in from Kaibosh and local restaurants such as Where’s Charlie? who donated fresh produce after they closed. With the closure of the main funding source, Vinnies Op Shops and unable to accept drop-off food donations from the public,St Vincent de Paul Society Wellington is calling on the wider community to consider making a cash donation towards the purchase of food bank supplies. Donations can be made vinnies-wellington.org.nz/donate.

    • Loving Doing A Job That Makes A Difference
      • Article from Mikel News - St Michael’s Kelburn Parish and Community newspaper: Kelburn Op Shop Manager, Narges Hamidi Street View of Vinnies Kelburn Kelburn Op Shop Team You might remember the local personality Narges Hamidi was nominated for Kiwibank Local Hero of the Year. Patricia Thompson goes behind the scenes to get better acquainted with one of Kelburn’s most visible characters. “I wanted to find a job where I could make difference,” says Narges Hamidi, manager of Kelburn’s op shop. “ I have a BA degree from Victoria University, where I majored in development studies, international relations and political science. Through my studies, I had seen both the divide between the developing world and also how much poverty exists here in New Zealand.” Narges took over the helm of the Upland Road store in 2015, the week after it opened - one of nine Society of St Vincent de Paul - or ‘Vinnies’ - stores in central Wellington. “I had worked part-time in Florence boutique in Marsden Village during my studies by this was my first full-time job’” she says. “I love the local community. Our customers really are like a big family. Having originally come to New Zealand as a refugee myself, I feel it is important to make everyone feel welcome. Lots of people stop by here just for a chat and to share what is happening in their lives.” Everything sold at the store is donated with the proceeds going to the services Vinnies provides in the Wellington community. This includes employing a full-time social worker, running a food bank, providing free clothing and bedding packs for mothers and their babies, helping people in need with household items, and visits to elderly people in their homes as well as to nursing homes, hospitals, prisons, the homeless and anyone experiencing loneliness. Vinnies also runs a number of other services, including a rest home and an altar bread business which provides employment to individuals with intellectual disabilities. “If people are in need of our services, then they can contact our social worker directly,” says Narges. “But sometimes people will chat to me in the shop and tell me they are facing difficulties and I’ll give them the social workers card and also give her a call to let her know. “If people need our help, they can pop into any of our nine stores and ask and they will be referred to the right channels for assistance. “ One of the most satisfying parts of the job is when our social worker brings people around our stores to select items for their homes. It may be a family where a parent has lost their job and they have had to move home suddenly and need things like whiteware. Sometimes it is refugee families who may need everything for the home. “ The social worker brings them round to select the items they need, rather than choosing for them. That gives them power and dignity. It is great to see them ‘shopping’ for their home and making choices and leaving with big smiles on their faces.” Narges is currently supported by “eleven lovely volunteers” but more are always welcome and she would like more from the retired community. There are challenges to the job: bags of donated items that are too soiled or damaged to sell, broken down furniture dumped outside the store when it is closed - which the charity has to pay to dispose of. Also the issue of some individuals going through boxes and bags left outside the shop out of hours, leaving items strewn across the pavement. “We have a wonderful neighbour nearby on Upland Road, who has a key and will put things inside and the Four Square are also very good,” says Narges. “The community is so supportive, and we get fantastic donations - but the ideal is to bring donations in during shop hours.” Shop hours are Monday - Friday 9am - 5:30pm and Saturday 9am - 4:30pm. By Patricia Thompson

    • The Power of Advocacy - Social Work Case Study
      • Social Work case study by Vinnies Community Social worker, Tania Martin. I met Sally* at ‘Vinnies in the Village’ (a Vinnies social work outreach service, where I meet people at their local community centres in Newlands, Johnsonville and Strathmore) where she arrived in tears. As a sole parent of four children, they had experienced health issues since moving into a social housing home. After discovering the roof was leaking, I completed a home visit and took photos of the leak. The entire ceiling had collapsed, and the maintenance crew had ‘patch’ repaired the roof. I phoned her social housing provider and began advocacy. After three months of phone calls, photographic evidence, support documentation from myself, the DHB and GP, we had success! This family now has a brand-new roof and hopefully next winter her children will not suffer respiratory illnesses. I also assisted Sally with a plan to pay off a legal bill with her immigration lawyer. Vinnies provided food parcels for a short period and household items such as hot water bottles (donated by a Conference member) and warm clothing. She set a weekly repayment goal and achieved this. Our Foodbanks ‘choice-based’ system means she chose what they ate, feeling empowered by the process. Applications were completed to Variety Kid’s for clothing, school stationery and extra-curricular activities for the children, and have since been approved. I saw her confidence and emotional wellbeing improve over this time to the extent that she has attended two job interviews, and now just phones me for advice if needed. *Name changed to protect her identity.

    • The Giving Tree Offerings from St Benedict’s School Families
      • Pictured: Mr Eustie Kamath, Dr Tim Hanlon, Mr Michael Hinds, Mrs Janine O’Styke and students of St Benedict’s School, Khandallah. President of the Onslow Conference of the St Vincent de Paul (SVdP) Society, Mr Eustie Kamath, together with parent, Proprietor’s Representative on the School Board of Trustees and fellow member of the Onslow Conference of the SVdP Society, Dr Tim Hanlon, both attended a ceremonial presentation of gifts by the children on 10th December 2019. The School had chosen the SVdP Society as its charity of choice to benefit from their Giving Tree Collection this year. The children and their families had been generously collecting gifts and bringing them to school to support the Merry Vinnies Christmas Appeal. Speaking to many members of the school's Catholic Character team, House Captains, and Mission Fair organising students in the School Library, Mr Eustie Kamath told them: ‘More than three hundred children will be touched by the generosity of those giving gifts to the Merry Vinnies Christmas Appeal, including these wonderful donations from the family community of St Benedict’s School’. The School Principal, Mr Michael Hinds and Director of Religious Studies, Mrs Jacqueline Miranda, had both been very supportive of the initiative given the strong link to the SVdP Society within the Parish. Some of the children gave their thoughts on the Giving Tree Appeal: Grace Lucas (Year 6) said ‘I think it is a privilege to be able to bring people less fortunate than ourselves joy’. Whilst Carl Novila (Year 8) said that ‘the Giving Tree is all about empathy; you feel for other people. By donating gifts you are expressing the EPIC values and giving happiness to kids who otherwise wouldn’t get anything for Christmas’. Emilia Dmochowski (Year 8) said ‘It is important to give to less fortunate people because they also deserve to have a very special Christmas. When families get presents their faces light up and some even start crying with joy. Giving makes everyone feel great.’ By Dr Timothy Hanlon

    • Better Off Together
      • Saturday, 16 November saw the second Vinnies Pop-Up Free Shop in Wellington, this time held in the community space of the Central Park flats at the bottom of Brooklyn Road. As with 2018’s successful event in Newtown, truckloads of clothes were collected and laid out for the benefit of attendees, who were queuing up half an hour before the 10am opening.   The Free Shop came about under the slogan of ‘Better Off Together’, as well as ‘Vinnies Helping People’, which was adorned on the vests worn by the volunteers who helped to sort the donations and organise and display them on the day. Boxes of second-hand clothes were joined by shoes, linen, toys, and homeware, all of which proved popular. As at last year’s event, free hot dogs and vegetarian nachos went down a treat, and musicians added to the warm atmosphere.   Compared to the 2018 effort, however, this year felt more like a community event rather than just a store. Zaccari Masters from Boar and Blade came along, even bringing his barber chair, and provided 23 free haircuts throughout the day. The Orange Sky and Hudson van, new to Wellington, also pulled up, offering free shower and laundry services alongside a kōrero with community members – they did eight large laundry loads through the day. Volunteers read stories to kids under a gazebo, and people came and went, bringing others with them to enjoy everything that was on offer.   As well as displaying the value of kotahitanga, the event highlighted the Central Park community room and courtyard as the fantastic space it is. Fortunately, any chance of rain held off, but in any case the ample area inside the building meant this would never have been an issue. The layout let some browse the tables for coveted items and brands, while others enjoyed the food and music in the sun (when it came out). Many thanks go to Susan, the Community Coordinator, for the assistance she provided to Vinnies in utilising the space.   In total, attendees took away the equivalent of around three vanloads of items, and the wide range of services on offer created a community hub that was appreciated by everyone there. Some 68 volunteers contributed 295.55 hours (that’s $5,231.20 worth of time volunteered at minimum wage), and around 470 people stopped by to enjoy the day, many staying throughout the afternoon. Heartfelt thanks go to our supporters, in particular Kiwi Community Assistance, Treehouse, Mercer, Kai Bosh, Volunteer Wellington, Archdiocese of Wellington, Merio Masters and the Berhampore Community Centre, Knights of Malta, SVDP Staff, SVDP Conference members, Wellington City Council Waste Fund, City Housing (WCC), Orange Sky and Hudson, and Zaccari Masters from Boar and Blade.

    • Perfectly Imperfect
      • This is how my work is often described. As a textile artist, garment designer and maker, I never make anything that doesn’t have imperfections. Some are deliberate but most emerge as part of the creative process of experimenting and innovating, as I problem-solve my way from pieces of textile on a table, to a finished garment that is ready to wear. This week I heard an interview with a researcher who talked about the impact perfectionism is having on young people’s self-esteem of mental health. The example he cited was a young man in the UK who constantly strived to be the best. The young man was reticent to acknowledge his achievements. He was self-critical of the effort it required to achieve the same results as his peers, and his internal compass told him that he would need to increase his efforts each time he achieved a goal, in order to meet his higher and higher expectations. He could see that his approach was producing diminishing returns for his effort and he was exhausted. This example demonstrated an unsustainable and unhealthy obsession with perfection. 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Ordinary people never look like the models who sell the clothes but that doesn’t stop young men and women starving themselves and spending lots of money in their attempts to achieve perfection. During my artist residency at Vinnies Re Sew I have seen amazing textiles, showing the marks of use (a small tear, a tea stain, a button missing, a moth hole) relegated to landfill because they are no longer perfect. Take the example of cotton, the most sought-after textile on earth. It is water hungry, costs many laborers, in unregulated economies, their health to farm and manufacture it into cloth. We see cotton in the discard bin at Vinnies as quilt covers, sheets, towels and garments. I was amazed to see quality cotton textiles in the bin at Vinnies and I collected them routinely for my work. I was disheartened by what was being thrown away – both by the person who originally paid full price for it and secondly by Vinnies, who is trusted to put donations to good use. Is sending textiles to landfill its best end use? More importantly, why do small imperfections that are so easily remedied, break our relationship with our belongings? When an Op Shop can’t realistically find a buyer for them, even quality textiles are discarded. What is missing in our thrift economy that means that these resource-rich textiles move from useful to useless relatively quickly – even prematurely? Some of the answers is that people are time poor and belongings must perform at peak output all the time. Repairing textiles takes time – not long, but it does take a mindful approach. Our consumer culture promotes shopping as a leisure activity. Once the ripped/stained/worn item is donated to a charity, another purchase soon fills the void in the household and the cycle of permanent perfection is maintained. This Take, Make, Waste – Repeat mentality reinforces our desire for perfection and keeps profits and growth of global companies healthy. My point is that perfection is not only corrosive to self-esteem, it is choking the thrift stores with unwanted and unusable goods. So, what does all this have to do with Vinnies Re Sew? There have been seven participants in the Waste to Warmth project, run from the Kilbirnie studio on three days each week from 7 October to 15 November. Conceived as a skills training and confidence development initiative, we have concentrated on making four designs from waste textiles (scarf, mittens, vest and bags), using both hand and machine sewing techniques. We worked through concepts and ideas, made patterns and cut and pieced textiles to achieve individual designs. In each class I shared my practice of perfect imperfection, encouraging creative problem solving so that each participant developed their own strategies to achieve their goals. I also shared some skills in the use of waste botanical materials such as leaves and onion skins to dye textiles and fibres. Each item produced in the project is bespoke to the desires and vision of each participant. The works are brilliant. The creativity and individuality expressed by the participants demonstrate commitment, adaptability, courage and drive to succeed. We are near the end of the project and everyone involved is very proud of the results. A showcase of the Waste to Warmth project will be presented as a runway show at Kilbirnie Community Centre on 30 November at 6pm. All Welcome Barbara Wheeler is an Australian textile artist and sustainability advocate who lives in Wellington. Barbara has been the artist in residence at Vinnies Re Sew from September to November 2019. You can find out about her work at www.everythreadcounts.design

    • Feast Day of St Vincent de Paul
      • The St Vincent de Paul Society (Vinnies) gathered last month to celebrate mass with Cardinal John Dew, for the feast day of their namesake. Vinnies is an international Catholic lay organisation inspired by the Gospels of Jesus Christ. They are a grass-roots organisation, whose members and volunteers have been helping countless families and individuals in New Zealand for more than 150 years. Vincentians work in a caring and practical manner to promote human dignity and justice through personal contact with those in need, hence their motto, “People Helping People”. Their mission is to help people in crisis, comforting them and assuring them that their burdens are not meant to be carried alone. Cardinal John’s Homily spoke to the charism of the society, likening the work carried out by the society to the actions of Jesus Christ in the Gospel. How he went out of his way to seek out, and care to the needs of the poor, sick and those perceived as outcasts. “The St Vincent de Paul Society has brought together people committed to supporting people experiencing hardship.” – Cardinal John Dew “The harvest is abundant, but the labourers are few, so ask the master of the harvest to send out labourers for his harvest.” - Matthew 9:35 “Christ’s prayer is our prayer. As much today as ever, we need people willing to actively show the love of God to people who feel abandoned by society for their material and spiritual needs.” – Cardinal John Dew The society would like to say thank you to everybody who attended, and to Cardinal John and his team who wish to make this celebration an annual event. If you’d like to learn more about the St Vincent de Paul Society, please visit, ‘find help’.

    • Wairarapa Young Vinnies - Soft Toy Project
      • During the last couple of weeks, Chanel College Young Vinnies ran lunchtime and after school workshops to hand stitch soft toys for newborns in the Wairarapa area. Over the course of a week and a half, the group handcrafted 60 teddy bears, dinosaurs and elephants with the help of material donated from the local Wairarapa Parish. Students enjoyed the experience while getting a greater appreciation as to how difficult this type of work could be. The soft toys will be distributed to newborns who are in the care of Whaiora nurses- with many going to children born into hardship.

    • Helping others while doing what I Love
      • Volunteering at Vinnies for the last year has been a blast. It is a refreshing change from my weekly shift work as nurse at Wellington Hospital. I love having the ability to be creative with colour, fabric and use my skills that I have acquired over many years sewing. I have enjoyed creating T-shirt bags, cot sheets and repairing garments ready to be resold. I have the ability to help others at Vinnies Re Sew while having fun doing something I love. I also volunteer with Friends of Fiji. Every year a medical team travels to Fiji to complete heart operations. After surgery patients need to support their chests. I make heart cushions which they hold. Vinnies Resew has donated the fabric for these cushions and will again this year. I have supported and encouraged Felicia one of the young volunteers with her creativity. It is lovely to see her smile and enjoying herself. It is gratifying helping others learn to sew; hemming, putting in zips and applique. The sewing skills of New Zealanders has been highlighted and put on show with the ‘Suffrage in Stiches’ project created by Caroline O’Reilly through Vinnies Re Sew. While attaching the backing to the panels I was able to see up close the beautiful detail and workmanship of others. I have had the privilege to meet so many people and hear about the resilient, hard working and courageous woman who signed the petition in 1893. Vinnies Re Sew is incredibly fortunate to have Caroline as the Coordinator. She is supportive, creative and encouraging. She welcomes all to have a go, have fun and creates a positive environment for people to work together from all walks of life.

    • A better society through Generosity
      • People find inspiration at different points in their lives. Some decide that generosity is the path to fulfillment — the noble cause of giving back what they receive from society. Ross and Cristina, who have been conference members of St. Vincent De Paul (SVDP) for the past five months, are doing precisely that. Ross and Cristina migrated to New Zealand from the Philippines in 1987, settling in Wellington. Living in Ngaio they attended St. Francis of Assisi Parish, until recently making the move to Miramar. Though Ross was new to volunteering with St Vincent de Paul, Cristina had already taken part in the Vinnie’s Street Day Appeal through the Newlands conference. “I felt very welcome with the other volunteers who worked with me,” Cristina says, fondly remembering the day. Positively influenced by this experience, when she came across a message in the Holy Trinity newsletter asking for people to join the local SVDP conference, there was no doubt in her mind she wanted to join. She even got her sister to enroll. As Cristina puts it, “By nature, people are drawn to help others.” So far, their work as conference members include attending a weekly church service, visiting families with different needs and supporting annual events such as the Vinnies Book Fair and Food Bank Appeal. Cristina assists a woman by driving her to their church service and supporting her to enjoy the after-service lunch and social time with other parishioners – a highlight as this is the only social interaction some have for the week. The most challenging but by far the most rewarding part of their work is visiting families in need of their help. “People acknowledge our support,” Ross says, “and we are mindful of their different cultural backgrounds when visiting.” They will have background information on what is needed before visiting and if they know there are children, they don’t forget the chocolates. Cristina visited her father regularly at his rest home for five years until he passed away last year. “At the rest home, I saw that many people didn’t receive visitors, and they were lonely. Given the chance, I would gladly do it again,” she says, referring to her other conference members who visit the elderly around Wellington. Both Ross and Cristina agree that volunteering through their SVDP conference is an excellent opportunity to meet new people outside of their regular church circle. “We need to do different things during different stages of our lives. When we were younger, we played sports, then we traveled, and now we volunteer,” Cristina says with a laugh. This is their way to give back and contribute to their home, Wellington. For them, this is not another activity that fills up their time, but a path through which they find fulfillment. Something greater than themselves. Something sacred. As Cristina says, “I think when you are given a purpose, it drives you, and everything else will fall into place. Volunteering makes life more meaningful. The smiles and the appreciation you receive from those you help is invaluable.” □ Danushka Devinda | Guest Writer

    • Suffrage in Stitches: Opening Night
      • A crowd of makers and friends gathered in every available nook and cranny of Wellington Museum. Anticipation mounted, pride filled the room, a palpable connection with our women of 1893 evident in the buzz. All felt indebted to their courage and foresight to campaign to make society a better place. 546 women from 1893 and beyond honoured by 600 makers in 2019. Stories and tributes stitched and portrayed on panels. The speeches were exceptional. Caroline O’Reilly of Vinnies Re Sew, who made the idea a reality talked of her vision and was warmly applauded by all present. Jackie Lloyd from the Wellington Museum Trust, spoke of the privilege of hosting the panels, Vanisu Dhiru the National President of the National Council of Women honoured the women of 1893 and 2019 and told her story of embroidering a panel. The Associate Minister of Art, Culture and Heritage Carmel Sepuloni opened the exhibition with gratitude and enthusiasm. We all moved forward with anticipation into the exhibition which came alive with eager makers and friends searching for their work. Stories were shared as women from Invercargill met with women from Kaitaia, the West Coast and Napier. We absorbed the stories; Phillippa Terrill and Fanny Oliver took their husbands to court and won, Mrs Jane Yandle was a taxidermist and furrier with moderate rates, and Harriot Cobb was an accomplished photographer. Martha Tempest Broadley survived a shipwreck in the Caitlins, Susanna Isherwood and Henrietta Letitia Smith were foundation members of the National Council of Women, Penelope Caroline Valpy was from remote Glenorchy. Mrs Morrisey signed on behalf of Mrs Mulrooney who couldn’t write. Elizabeth Stephens was raped by the constable and won her court case. Mrs Clarke had 14 children, Ngarona Ihakatu was part of the Maori Women’s movement to prohibit the use of alcohol and Mary Anne Muller campaigned anonymously under the pen name Femina. Through all these remarkable stories came the realisation and gratitude that “they signed for us.” All wanted a better life …..we were excited and inspired as thousands of stitches gave light to these remarkable women of courage and vision. All the makers started with a name, a piece of fabric and minimal guidelines. Many had a family connection, others a name only. They researched, pondered, found their story, selected colours, fabrics, and started stitching getting closer to their woman as they went. One maker had members of their family all contribute a stitch, some used heirloom fabrics, many copied photos onto fabric. Stories were told through fabrics, gloves and lace. Adorned with buttons, earrings, rosettes, feathers, beads, pins and badges, pieces of blanket and tartan, patchworked stories gave voice to our forebears. 46 special stitches on each panel honoured the other signatories and ensured that all the women who signed the petition are represented in the exhibition. Panels of equal size, with huge stories and profound impact. Alyson Howell | Writer and Maker Note Kate Patterson (maker) and Alyson Howell( writer) proudly wore hand-stitched heirloom capes to the opening. They belonged to their great-grandmother Susanna Isherwood (Panel 186) who wore these capes to suffrage meetings, and to the first NCW meetings in Christchurch.

    • Social Work "We're Human Specialists"
      • All I knew was that Vinnies carried decently priced clothes. I didn’t know Vinnies was a moniker for St Vincent De Paul Society, or that the op shops fund a range of social services. You may find this information new to you too, probably because they pride themselves on humility and don’t seek recognition. The Newtown Welfare hub runs a food bank, pregnancy assistance (free bedding and baby clothes for new mothers) and emotional support visits that range from people in hospitals to prisons. Their sewing studio, Vinnies Re Sew in Kilbirnie recycles textile waste and offers upskilling opportunities in an inclusive environment. Full-time social worker Tania Martin is at the forefront of the social services offered by the Wellington Branch. We’ve all heard the term, but what is a social worker? Even Google appeared utterly confused when I researched the definition and only found a vague summary. Simply explained, Tania said, “We’re human specialists”. Specifically, Tania’s work provides working alongside or referring clients to other agencies: Counselling, Budgeting, Mental Health and Addictions, Legal, English Language, Parenting and Family Violence services etc. Tania arrives at 8:15 a.m. and as she said, “answers a million emails”. Appointments in her office begin around 9 a.m. People without transportation can meet her at Strathmore, Newlands and Johnsonville Community Centers, or she will make a home visit. And of course, there’s paperwork, letter writing, meetings and phone calls. Tania stands tall with short brunette hair that sways to one side. She carries the perfect combination of authenticity and tenacity, two traits important for social work. Previously in health social work, she’s worked at St Vincent De Paul Society for three months but appears comfortable in her role. She’s the only social worker at the Wellington branch so her days vary. She works with refugees, families, mental illness, drug addiction, the homeless and everyone in between. Social work is multifaceted, it requires self awareness to experience the person’s story without merging into the narrative. I asked how she avoids feeling bitter towards the “system”. She said, “I don’t think it’s bitter, I think it’s more what can I do about this? It’s always who do I call, what can I do to support you? What do you need? I can write a letter; I can ring this person for you”. Social work isn’t for everyone, it can become taxing because empathy and building trust are central components to accomplish the work. However, with the obstacles follows great rewards. In 2010 a study was released called “Changes in Dispositional Empathy in American College Students Over Time: A Meta-Analysis,” conducted by Sarah Konrath in the United States (Konrath). The definition of empathy is still unclear, but it was narrowed down to four aspects: the ability to take on the perspective of another’s point of view; concern over the misfortunes of others; the capacity to identify with fictional characters in books and movies; and the personal distress over the misfortunes of others (Paul). The study found 40% of college students were less empathetic than 30 years prior, significantly dropping after the 2000’s with a rise in hate crimes (Konrath). Let that sink in for a moment. If empathy has steadily decreased since the 2000’s, then we need far more people like Tania. She told me, social work is a part of your entire life, not just a 9-5 job. St Vincent De Paul Society remains small which allows the organisation to be personal and truly care for the people they help. St. Vincent De Paul operates with these values: generosity, integrity, compassion, responsiveness, advocacy and commitment. If we lack empathy, we need more organisations like St. Vincent which are managed by the community for the community. You don’t need to be a social worker to care about the vulnerable and stand for equality. What are social workers? They’re courageous supporters for the underprivileged. Simply, it’s you and me. Tania explained it best, “Social work is about stories, it’s about people’s stories and who they are. It’s like peeling an onion; layers upon layers upon layers and every little onion is different so it’s always fascinating”. □ Georgia Cutter | Guest Writer Work Cited: Konrath, Sara H., et al. “Changes in Dispositional Empathy in American College Students Over Time: A Meta-Analysis.” Personality and Social Psychology Review, vol. 15, no. 2, 5 Aug. 2010, pp. 180–198., doi:10.1177/1088868310377395. Paul, Pamela. “From Students, Less Kindness for Strangers?” The New York Times, 25 June 2010, www.nytimes.com/2010/06/27/fashion/27StudiedEmpathy.html.

    • Give Me Your Hand
      • Annual Report Over the past year, we have sought to give many people a hand up to help them in their need. Our logo shows three hands embracing a cup of water - the hand of Christ blessing the cup, the hand of love offering the cup and the hand of those suffering receiving the cup. We strive to be the hand of love offering relief. St Teresa of Avila reminds us that “Christ has no body now but yours. Yours are the eyes through which he looks compassion on this world. Yours are the feet with which he walks to do good. Yours are the hands through which he blesses all the world”. Thank you all for striving to be that hand of love - our members, associate members, our volunteers, our staff and our officeholders. Each act of kindness is an expression of love which, when given without any hope of return gives the recipient an experience of God. That experience is touched upon by the Austrian poet Rainer Maria Rilke (1875-1926) who wrote: “God speaks to each of us as he makes us, then walks with us silently out of the night. These are the words we dimly hear: You, sent out beyond your recall, go to the limits of your longing. Embody me. Flare up like flame and make big shadows I can move in. Let everything happen to you: beauty and terror. Just keep going. No feeling is final. Don’t let yourself lose me. Nearby is the country they call life. You will know it by its seriousness. Give me your hand.”

    • Fostering Togetherness
      • Panel #309 by Debbia Snelson, honuring suffragette, Lousia M Snelson. “St Vincent de Paul Society Wellington provides help to people needing welfare and support services within the Wellington area. Fostered through the Society’s Vinnies Re Sew program, Suffrage in Stitches looks into our past, present and future, reminding all who have been involved that as New Zealanders we still face daily inequalities and ongoing struggles with poverty, homelessness and discrimination. Projects like this help foster togetherness and create stronger communities that can support each other as well as support work done by charities like St Vincent de Paul, whose members are still working hard after 150 years to alleviate the stressors that societal inequalities have on people in Wellington and across New Zealand.” John Kennedy-GoodArea Council President, St Vincent de Paul Society Wellington

    • Welcome to the team: Tania, Community Social Worker
      • We welcome Tania to the team as the new Vinnies Community Social Worker. Based from the Newtown Welfare & Services office, Tania will be providing support to the diverse range of people and complex needs that come through our doors. Community Social Worker, Tania. “I came from Whakatāne last year for a lifestyle change with husband Dave, after 23 years in the Eastern Bay of Plenty. Our daughter is in her 4th year at Victoria University, so it’s also good to have time with her. I previously worked as a health Social Worker in Whakatāne Hospital and more recently in palliative care at Mary Potter Hospice I love social work because I have a passion for helping people create change however small to make their world better. I practice holistically, constantly observing people’s worlds and wellbeing, unpacking how environment and systems impact emotional, psychological, social, spiritual and physical wellbeing. Being able to assist is a privilege, and for me I think social work is a vocation. I applied for this role as I was missing the ‘grit’ of frontline work and wanted a change from health social work. My role in Whakatāne, whilst in hospital, was one well involved in community networks and I am looking forward to networking in this community, working alongside this awesome team to support people in Wellington. I’ve been asked to say a couple of things about food and what I like to do, so I love any food really, but a favourite is anything involving cheese! Let’s be honest, cheese, wine and chips. I love to be outdoors, going for a run in the bush and hanging out with my family and friends having lots of laughs. I love animals and got to feed a giraffe at Wellington Zoo this year which was cool! We owned three pet alpacas in Whakatāne and being too big for a city garden (!) were rehomed before moving.. They are hilarious and gentle creatures who brought a lot of joy with their antics. Our wee dog Daisy (mini schnauzer/poodle cross), came with us to adapt to city life and is an adored family member (probably too adored!). I look forward to getting into the swing of things and meeting more of you as time goes on.” Contact:socialwork@vinnieswgtn.org.nz04 389 7122

    • Local Hero Nomination
      • Kelburn Op Shop manager, Narges was anonymously nominated by a member of the Kelburn Community for the Kiwibank New Zealand Local Hero of the Year Award. This is a testament to the work Narges has put into the Kelburn Shop and the impact she’s made on her local community. We couldn’t be prouder to have her as part of our Vinnies team.

    • President's Address - April 2019
      • John Kennedy-Good, James Croach and friends helping at the Berhampore Community Center Christmas lunch. Is it kind ? Is it important? Does it help? These important questions are posed by a 91-year-old Holocaust survivor Edith Egar in her best selling memoir “The Choice” which is now available in paperback. I first heard this remarkable woman being interviewed by Catherine Ryan on National Radio and was captivated not only by horrors she endured at Auschwitz but how she dealt with her experiences and how she has used those experiences to help others. Her thesis is that “you can’t change what happened, you can’t change what you did or what was done to you. But you can choose how to live now”. Hence the title of her book. She counsels; “Instead of blaming others, take responsibility for your own actions and speech. Before you say or do something, ask, Is it kind? Is it important? Does it help?” If we as Vincentians were to follow this advice in our dealings with others, it may become contagious and in the words of Philip Zimbardo who wrote in the Foreword to Edith’s book that; “We are all “heroes in training” Our training is life, the daily circumstances that invite us to practice the habits of heroism: to commit daily deeds of kindness; to radiate compassion, starting with self-compassion; to bring out the best in others and ourselves; to sustain love, even in the most challenging relationships; to celebrate and exercise the power of our mental freedom”. He points out that to be a hero requires taking effective action at crucial junctures in our lives, to make an active attempt to address injustice or create positive change in the world. These words reflect those of Blessed Frederic Ozanam who encouraged early members of the Society. “Yours must be a work of love, of kindness. You must give of your time, your talents, yourselves. The poor person is a unique person of God’s fashioning with unalienable right to respect. You must not be content with tiding the poor over the poverty crisis.” “You must study their condition and injustices which brought about such poverty, with the aim of long term improvement.” That is indeed a challenge for heroes, and it can all start by asking ourselves before we speak or act: Is it Kind? Is it important? Does it help?

    • Vincentian Remembered
      • Gil Lescher Gil Lescher was one of City Conferences longest serving members. A Vincentian since the 1950’s, we remember Gil and her contribution to her community through her words of reflection before passing in late 2018. “I originally joined the St Vincent de Paul in the 1950’s, when I was a student. I wanted to get more involved in my parish, in a practical way, and this seemed the best group for me at the time. Over many years our conference has been very fortunate to have a member of the clergy as spiritual director at our meetings. We met in our parish hall at St Mary of the Angels. Our membership has always been very varied – men and women of many different backgrounds, ages, abilities and interests. Most of us with work and family commitments, but all of us wanting to do something for St Vincent de Paul. We chose times that fitted in with our own particular circumstances – some mostly acted on their own, others sometimes together. Our work also varied and was mostly low-key. For example, home visits, hospital and rest home visits, offering support at funerals, maybe responding to a particular request for a visit or for some personal help. Sometimes it was just one visit, often more if wanted. I was lucky to have a car, and was able to give lifts to other members so we could work together at times. I remember about three of us, plus my old vacuum cleaner, arriving with great enthusiasm to spring-clean someone’s flat. The results are probably best forgotten and forgiven, but we meant well! We also gave lifts to those with various needs – such as to visit relatives in hospital, go on an outing, get to medical appointments or even so they could avoid difficult circumstances for a while. Sometimes we delivered food to people, and Christmas presents to families. I remember times when our conference took a special interest in refugees from some difficult countries, sponsoring, finding accommodation, work (if possible), helping financially and supporting in many different ways. I think the challenges the Society faced then and those it faces now are all much the same, and a key word in facing them is flexibility. It is good that we remain sensitive to the needs of those we help as well as the differing circumstances of our members. It is important that we enjoy our work and that those in need enjoy our help. Of course we must always remember the spiritual side of our work – the two go together. When I think back now on it all, the many wonderful people I have met (including our St Vincent de Paul members), I have no regrets at all. Sometimes it wasn’t easy but it has been all so worthwhile.”

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